Choosing Adoption When The Birth Father is Violent or Abusive

By Kelly Paczkowski

Dealing with an unplanned pregnancy can add heightened stress and pressure to any relationship. Add in the fact that the father is violent and/or abusive, which can cause many birth mothers to make choices solely based on fear.

The first thing is to recognize the signs of an abusive relationship. Does your partner physically hurt you? Do they blame you for things beyond your or their control? Does he shout at you and make you feel nervous around them? Do they never trust you to be alone, or are they overbearing? You just might be in an abusive relationship.

In a healthy relationship, these things would not happen. A healthy relationship is based on mutual respect and trust, also in a healthy.

Birth mothers fear that their child may grow up in a household where they witness domestic violence or that their child may become a victim themselves. Many women that are in that situation are scared and overwhelmed.

If you need adoption help now, please call or text us at 1-480-900-5520 or visit us at Adoption Choices of Arizona.

Putting Baby Up For Adoption in Arizona

For those dealing with an abusive relationship and an unexpected pregnancy, you may not want your child to be raised within the chaos of domestic violence. Some birth mothers may choose to place their baby for adoption to ensure their safety. Placing your child for adoption may provide them with a loving family and security. However, it is important to remember that you also need to be in a safe environment. By working with an adoption specialist at an adoption agency in Arizona, they can help you find safety during and after your pregnancy.

Find Help From an Adoption Agency in Arizona

Adoption Choices of Arizona is a licensed local and private adoption agency that services birth parents, adoptive families, and children through the adoption process. We can find you assistance and support if you find yourself in an abusive relationship. Contact Adoption Choices of Arizona. We are available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. Call or text 1-480-900-5520 or reach out by email. We can help you get out of a bad situation.

How does Adoption in Arizona work?

Once you, as a birth mother, decide on an adoption plan, you will look for an adoption agency in Arizona that can assist you with planning what’s best for you and your baby. They will help you choose an adoptive family and provide support.

Can I Still Put My Baby for Adoption Without the Abusive Birth Father’s Consent?

Every situation is unique, and every state has its laws governing whether consent is needed or not. The birth father may still have parental rights. Even though he is violent or abusive, he may still have to have them taken away to proceed. Those rights might have to be terminated by a judge. The best way to determine the right action plan before the adoption is made is, to be honest about the situation with your experienced adoption specialist. They will be able to offer advice and support to deal with your situation. Contact Adoption Choices of Arizonatoday if you want to learn more about placing a child for adoption without a birth father’s consent. They will be able to help you get the answers you need.

Finding Adoption In the Face of a Difficult Circumstance 

Always remember that domestic violence is not your fault. If you feel your partner is abusive, emotionally, or physically violent towards you, the best thing to do is get out of it. Domestic violence is shown to only get worse the longer a partner stays. The most important thing is to ensure that you and your baby are safe, and we at Adoption Choices of Arizona can assist you in doing that.

For adoption resources or to begin your adoption journey, birth parents can visit us at Adoption Choices of Arizona or call or text us at 1-480-900-5520. If you are a prospective adoptive family hoping to adopt a baby, please, instead, visit us here!

If you are a domestic violence or sexual assault victim, please reach out to the following numbers below. They can provide information and support to victims and survivors of domestic violence.  

• Arizona Sexual and Domestic Violence Helpline at 1-800-782-6400 
•  National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233.

If you are in immediate danger, dial 911.